Following is the way of determining good friends suggested in 논어:
▲ Are they honest?
▲ Do they like to learn?
▲ Are they communicating with good people?
▲ Do they empathize with the feelings of others?
▲ Do they help others?
▲ Is there any loyalty?
▲ Do they respect each other even after socializing for a long time?
▲ Are they well-balanced?
▲ Are they good at self-control?
▲ Are they good at compliments
However, the number one priority to avoid is 'braging about your children'
The books also said to stay away from friends who give advice too much,
because frequent advice can be a risk of crossing the line.
But unfortunately,
there are no such friends around me, and I am not that kind of person as well....😒
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작성자하늘을 나는 작성시간 22.01.29 Are they communicating with "good people"?
What is the definition of good people?
At this point of my life that's what I often wonder... -
답댓글 작성자이젠백 작성시간 22.01.29 Shall I answer you?
It’s the people who makes me feel comfortable anywhere, any time.
Snug as a bug in a rug ...
But they are hard to come by...
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답댓글 작성자해뜰 작성자 본인 여부 작성자 작성시간 22.07.29 하늘님
In addition to 방장님's good comments, it would be nice if he/she had a good reputation around him. . -
작성자조앤리 작성시간 22.01.30 If the people who are good companies, we can always stick together...
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답댓글 작성자해뜰 작성자 본인 여부 작성자 작성시간 22.01.30 True. .
조앤님 Happy long holiday!