참 왜 들 그렇게 사는지(남은 삶을 지혜 있게 살려함의 연작시 )

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참 왜 들 그렇게 사는지(남은 삶을 지혜 있게 살려함의 연작시 )

조용한 밤 한 밤중 사위가 조용한 새벽에 깨어나

살아온 생을 생각하고 남은 생을 어떻게 살아야 
잘 산다는 말을 들을 것인가를 생각해 본다 

물론 잘 산다는 말은 행복하게 잘 사는 거 말이다

생각들은 밤이라 중구난방이고 두서가 없다

그러나 대략 이런 거다 

오랜 세월 살다 보니 

왜 들 이렇게 좋은 세상에 그렇게 다들 

불행하게 지옥같이 사는지 하는 생각이 많이 든다
그리고 지금 자신이 살고 있는 세상이 

얼마나 더 오래 자신의 남은 생을 영유하며 살 것인지도 말이다
자신의 의식이 끊기는 순간 세상은 존재하지 않는다 

누구는 백 년을 살고 누구는 천년을 사는 것도 아닌 

그저 세상 많이 살아야 백 년이고 
백 년에서 자신의 나이를 빼면 

많이 살아야 그 나이만큼 더 살 텐데 
많은 사람들은 그 생각도 하지 못한 채 

자신이 살날이 앞으로 몇 백 년은 더 살 거라고 

개념 없이 아직도 남의 걸 탐내며 사는 것 같다

그러나 앞서 말했듯 인생은 잘 살아야 백 년이고 

자신의 남은 생이 많이 살아야 
백 년에서 자신의 나이를 빼면 그만큼 더 살게 되는 것이다

여보게들 인생살이 하는 이들 

촌음을 아껴라 

그리고 그 남은 촌음마저도 

왜 행복하지 않게 살려하느냐 

남은 세월 우린 행복하게 살 권리와 의무가 있다

인생은 길어야 백 년 자신이 산만큼 백 년에서 빼면 자신의 남은 생인데 
이 귀중한 시간을 왜 아직도 허투루 쓰고 불행하게 살려하는가 
남은 생이 행복하고 더하여 더 행복해도 모자랄 판인데 말이다

그럼 앞으로 우리의 숙제는 

행복하게 남은 여생을 잘 살려면 어떻게 살아야 되는 건가 일 것이다
그건 이미 답은 나와 있다 다만 그걸 인지하느냐 안 하느냐 문제지 

가진걸 더 가지려고 아웅다웅하면서 허투루 남은 시간을 허비하려느냐
아님 자신이 지금 가지고 있는 걸 소중하게 생각하고 감사하게 생각하면서
그걸 잘 쓰고 누리고 사느냐에 문제일 것 같다 

각자 인간의 능력은 한계가 있기 마련 

자신의 능력밖의 것을 탐내 시간을 허비하고 
그것을 얻지 못해 스트레스를 받고 

그렇게 하루하루를 지옥 속에서 살 것인가 
아님 자신의 능력을 인정하고 자신이 구할 수 있는 만큼 구하고 
그걸 고마워하며 잘 살 것 인지는 자신의 결정에 따랐다

머리가 좋은 사람이든 나쁜 사람이든 

자신을 알고 남을 알고 세상을 안다면 
그게 더 세상을 잘 살 수 있고 

다른 사람보다 앞을 내다보는 능력 있으며

행복하게 살고 세상을 잘 살 수 있는 
뛰어난 선견지명이 있는 사람인 것이다

첨언하자면 인간은 몸으로 머리로 살지만 

가슴으로도 산다는 거다
머리로만 살지 말고 가슴으로도 살기를 바란다

그게 행복의 지름길이니까 말이다
행복은 숫자에서 오는 게 아니고 가슴에서 온다

내 마음속에서 내 가슴속에서 

내가 행복하다고 생각한다면 

당신은 행복한 거다 
행복의 기준점은 없다 

더군다나 그 없는 걸 

세상에서 구하면 얻기는 어려울 것이다
그건 자신 속에서 찾아야 된다 

각자의 마음에 행복이 존재하니까 말이다

그나마 얼마 남지 않는 

남은 생을 행복하게 살려면 

자신의 마음을 들여다보고 

자신의 마음이 어떻게 하면 

더 행복해지는 가를 바라봐야 될 것이다

욕심이 존재한다면 이미 행복은 멀어지고 

불행이 그 자리를 대신할 것이다
행복은 배타의 마음이 아닌 이타의 마음에 있다

  
자신이 지금 가진걸 귀중하게 생각하고 

그걸 감사하게 생각하고 그걸 잘 사용하여 
행복한 남은 여생을 잘 살기 바란다

누누이 말하지만 행복은 다른데 있지 않다 

자신의 마음속에 있는 게 행복이다

그러니 남의 걸 탐내지 말고 

자신이 가지고 있는 걸 고맙게 생각하고 

그걸 잘 쓰면서 행복하게 살다가 

가벼운 몸으로 가벼운 마음으로 

이 생을 마감하길 바란다

한려수 

Why do people live like that? (A series of wisdom for living the remaining life)

In the quiet of the night, in the dead of night, when one wakes up,

Thinking about the life one has lived,

and how to live the remaining life In a way that one will hear words of living well.

Of course, living well means living happily.

Thoughts are scattered and disorganized at night.

But roughly, it's something like this:

Having lived for a long time,

I often wonder why in such a good world people

Live so unhappily, like living in hell.

And now, the world one is living in,

How much longer will one live on one's remaining life?

When one's consciousness is cut off, the world ceases to exist.

Some live for a hundred years, some not even for a thousand,

Just living a lot in the world is a hundred years,

If you subtract your age from a hundred years,

Living a lot means living as much as your age.

But many people, without even thinking about it,

Think they will live hundreds more days

Still living coveting others' things without concept.

But as mentioned earlier, one must live well to live for a hundred years,

To live as much as one's remaining life,

If you subtract your age from a hundred years,

you will live that much more.

So, to live the remaining life happily,

What must one do to live well?

The answer is already there,

it's just whether one realizes it or not.

If one keeps wanting more of what one has,

Wasting the remaining time in vain,

And not being happy with it, In the remaining time,

we have the right and obligation to live happily.

Life should be long enough to live a hundred years as much as one lives,

And when you subtract a hundred years,

it's your remaining life,

But why waste this precious time in vain and live unhappily?

Even if the remaining life is happy and even more happy,

it might not be enough.

So our homework from now on is,

How do we live well to live the remaining years happily?

The answer is already there, it's just whether one realizes it or not.

Whether to keep wanting more of what one has and waste time in vain,

Or to think of what one has now as precious and be grateful,

And use it well and enjoy it, It depends on one's own decision.

Whether one is smart or not,

If one knows oneself and knows others and knows the world,

One can live the world better,

With the ability to look ahead more than others,

Live happily and live the world well,

It's a person with excellent foresight.

As an aside, humans live with their bodies and minds,

But they also live with their hearts.

Don't just live with your head, live with your heart too.

That's the shortcut to happiness,

Happiness doesn't come from numbers,

it comes from the heart.

If you think you're happy in your heart,

Then you are happy, There's no standard for happiness,

Moreover, if you seek it where it doesn't exist in the world,

It will be difficult to obtain.

It must be found within oneself,

Because happiness exists in each person's heart.

So if you want to live the remaining life happily,

Look into your own heart,

And see how your heart can be happier.

If there is greed, happiness is already far away,

Unhappiness will take its place.

Happiness lies in a heart of giving, not in a heart of exclusivity.

If you think what you have now is valuable,

Be grateful for it and use it well,

I hope you live the remaining happy life well.

It's often said, but happiness isn't elsewhere,

It's in your own heart.

So don't covet what others have,

Be grateful for what you have,

Live happily while using it well,

With a light body and a light heart,

I hope you close this life.

hanryusoo

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