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๐ŸŒน๋‚จ์€ ์ธ์ƒ(ไบบ็”Ÿ)(The rest of my life)๐ŸŒน

์ž‘์„ฑ์žํšจ์•”(ๅญ่ด) ๋ฐ•๊ทœํƒ(ๅ…ฌ่ช ๅคงๆณ•ๅธซ)|์ž‘์„ฑ์‹œ๊ฐ„23.03.31|์กฐํšŒ์ˆ˜60 ๋ชฉ๋ก ๋Œ“๊ธ€ 7

ไบบ็”Ÿ์€ ๋„ˆ์™€ ๋‚˜์˜ ๋งŒ๋‚จ์ธ ๋™์‹œ(ๅŒๆ™‚, simultaneous)์— ๋„ˆ์™€ ๋‚˜์˜ ํ—ค์–ด์ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ด๋ณ„(้›ขๅˆฅ, separation) ์—†๋Š” ไบบ็”Ÿ์ด ์—†๊ณ  ้›ขๅˆฅ์ด ์—†๋Š” ๋งŒ๋‚จ์€ ์—†์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.(Life is a break-up between you and me at the same time that we meet. There is no life without a breakup, and there is no meeting without a breakup.)

์‚ด์•„ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ž์—๊ป˜๋Š” ๋ฐ˜๋“œ์‹œ ์ฃฝ์Œ์ด ์˜ค๊ณ  ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋Š” ์ž๋Š” ๋ฐ˜๋“œ์‹œ ํ—ค์–ด์ ธ์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด ไธ–ไธŠ์—์„œ ์˜์›(ๆฐธ้ , immortality) ํžˆ ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.(Death must come to the living, and those who meet must break up. We don't live forever in this world.)

๋– ๋‚œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์Šฌํ”ˆ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ •๋“  ๊ฐ€์ •(ๅฎถๆ—, home), ์ •๋“  ์นœ๊ตฌ(่ฆช่ˆŠ, friend), ์ •๋“  ๊ณ ํ–ฅ(ๆ•…้„•, hometown), ์ •๋“  ๋ฌผ๊ฑด(็‰ฉไปถ, object)๊ณผ ์˜์›(ๆฐธ้ , immortality)ํžˆ ๋– ๋‚œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ฐธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ดด๋กญ๊ณ  ์Šฌํ”ˆ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. (It's sad to leave. an affectionate family, an affectionate friend, an affectionate hometown, It's really painful and sad to leave for ever and ever.)

์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์‚ด์•„๊ฐ€๋Š” ๋™์‹œ(ๅŒๆ™‚, simultaneous)์— ์ฃฝ์–ด๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ฃฝ์Œ์€ ์ธ๊ฐ„ ์‹ค์กด(ไบบ้–“ ๅฏฆๅญ˜, humanย  existence)์˜ ํ•œ๊ณ„ ์ƒํ™ฉ(้™็•Œ ็‹€ๆณ, a critical ย situation)์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.(We're dying at the same time as we live. Death is a marginal state of human existence.)

ํ”ผํ•˜๋ ค์•ผ ํ”ผํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๊ณ  ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๋ ค ์•ผ ๋ฒ—์–ด ๋‚  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ์šด๋ช…์  ์ƒํ™ฉ (้‹ๅ‘ฝ็š„ ็‹€ๆณ, a fateful situation)์ด์š”, ์ ˆ๋Œ€์ (็ตถๅฐ็š„, unconditional)์ธ ์ƒํ™ฉ(็‹€ๆณ, circumstances)์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.(It's a fateful situation where you can't avoid it and you can't escape it, It's an absolute situation.)

๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋‚˜ ์ฃฝ์Œ ์•ž์— ์„œ๋ฉด ์ˆ™์—ฐ(่‚…็„ถ, destiny)ํ•ด ์ง€๊ณ  ์ง„์ง€(็œžๆ‘ฏ, a position)ํ•ด ์ง‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์ด ์„ธ์ƒ(ไธ–ไธŠ, theย world)์„ ์–ธ์  ๊ณ  ๋– ๋‚  ์ค€๋น„(ๆบ–ๅ‚™, readiness)๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ์‚ด์•„์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.(So everyone becomes solemn and serious when they stand before death. We have to live in this world ready to leave at any time.)

์–ธ์ œ ์ฃฝ๋“œ๋ž˜๋„ ํƒœ์—ฐ ์ž์•ฝ(ๆณฐ็„ถ ่‡ช่‹ฅ, a peace of mind:โ‘  ๋งˆ์Œ ์—ย ์–ด๋–คย ์ถฉ๊ฒฉ์„ย ๋ฐ›์•„๋„ย ๋ณ€ํ•จ์—†์ดย ์ฒœ์—ฐ์Šค๋Ÿฝ๋‹ค. โ‘ก ์‹ฌ๋ฆฌ์ ์œผ๋กœย ์ถฉ๊ฒฉ ์„ย ๋ฐ›์„ย ๋งŒํ•œย ์ƒํ™ฉ์ธ๋ฐ๋„ย ์ „ํ˜€ ํƒœ๋„์˜ย ๋ณ€ํ™”๊ฐ€ย ์—†์ดย ํ‰์†Œย ๊ทธ๋Œ€๋กœ์ž„.)ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ์ฃฝ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋งˆ์Œ์˜ ์ค€๋น„ (ๆบ–ๅ‚™, prepare)๋Š” ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ์ค‘์š”(้‡่ฆ, significant)ํ•œ ์ผ์ž…๋‹ˆ๊นŒ?(How important is the preparation of the mind to die with self-restraint at any time?)

์–ธ์ œ ๋– ๋‚˜๋”๋ผ๋„ ์กฐ์šฉํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋– ๋‚  ์ค€๋น„(ๆบ–ๅ‚™, preparation)๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ƒ์‚ฌ๊ด€(็”Ÿๆญป่ง€, the View of Death)์„ ํ™•๋ฆฝ (็ขบ็ซ‹)ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ฐธ์œผ๋กœ ์ค‘์š”(้‡่ฆ, critical)ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ ๋‹ค.(It's really important to establish a view of life that prepares you to leave quietly whenever you leave.)

์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์˜์›(ๆฐธ้ , eternity)ํžˆ ์‚ฌ๋Š” ์ธ์ƒ(ไบบ็”Ÿ, human)์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ฃฝ์Œ์€ ์˜ˆ๊ณ (่ฑซๅ‘Š, notice)์—†์ด ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์˜ˆ์™ธ(ไพ‹ๅค–, exception)์—†์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์•„์˜ต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.(We are not eternal life. And death comes to us without warning and without exception.)

์ฃฝ์Œ์˜ ์ฐจ๊ฐ€์šด ์†์ด ์–ธ์ œ ๋‚˜์˜ ็”Ÿๅ‘ฝ์˜ ้–€(The Door to Life)์„ ๋‘๋“œ๋ฆด์ง€๋Š” ๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ทธ๋•Œ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚˜์˜ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‘๊ณ  ํ˜ผ์ž ๋– ๋‚˜์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.(I don't know when the cold hand of death will knock on my door of life. At that time, I have to leave everything I love and leave alone.)

์ธ์ƒ(ไบบ็”Ÿ)์— ๋Œ€(ๅฐ)ํ•œ ์ง‘์ฐฉ(ๅŸท็€, obsession)๊ณผ ๋ฌผ์งˆ(็‰ฉ่ณช, matter)์— ๋Œ€(ๅฐ)ํ•œ ํƒ์š•(่ฒชๆ…พ, avarice)์„ ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๊ณ , ์ง€์ƒ(ๅœฐไธŠ)์˜ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€(ๅฐ)ํ•œ ๋งน๋ชฉ์ (็›ฒ็›ฎ็š„, blind)์ธ ์š•์‹ฌ(ๆ…พๅฟƒ, selfishness)์„ ๋ฒ„๋ ค์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. (Abandon the obsession with life and greed against matter, You have to abandon your blind greed for earthly things.)

์˜ค๋Š˜์ด ์–ด์ฉŒ๋ฉด ๋‚˜์˜ ์‚ถ์ด ๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰ ์ผ์ง€๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฅธ๋‹ค๋Š” ์ƒ๊ฐ์— ์ฃผ์–ด์ง„ ์˜ค๋Š˜์— ๊ฐ์‚ฌ( ๆ„Ÿ่ฌ, appreciate) ํ•˜๋ฉฐ, ์ตœ์„ (ๆœ€ๅ–„, possible)์„ ๋‹คํ•˜๋Š”์‚ถ์ด ๋˜๋„๋ก ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.(I'm grateful for today given to me because I think today may be the last day of my life, You'll have to make sure you do your best.)



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